Consent & Limits
Every limit, in both directions.
Rate each act allowed, maybe or forbidden — for giving and for receiving. Your partner can see your map but never edit it, and the AI never crosses a forbidden line.
For couples who choose each other, on purpose
Devotion, by design.
The private vault where dominance and submission get structure — rules, rituals, tasks, and limits that are yours alone. No feeds. No profiles. No one watching but the two of you.
Encrypted · No social graph · Hosted in GermanyA dynamic deserves more than memory.
Power exchange runs on structure: what is expected, what is agreed, what is off-limits. Obidience holds all of it — so the rules are explicit, the rituals are kept, and the trust is built on something you can both see. You decide the dynamic. We give it shape.
A look inside
Real screens, real structure.
Nothing staged but the names — this is the app you’d actually use.
Structure & Control
Expectations, made explicit.
Rules, tasks and protocols in one place — marks for keeping them, consequences for slips, and a thread to talk it through.
Rules
Daily Devotion
Begin and end together.
Morning check-ins and evening reflections stay hidden until you’ve both answered — then they reveal, side by side.
The Marks Economy
Devotion, made tangible.
Earn marks for what you keep, spend them on rewards you chose together — every balance and statement in one ledger.
The ledger
The Catalog
Rewards, funishments, consequences.
A menu you build together — treats to redeem, playful funishments, and corrective punishments, each costed in marks.
Scenes & Playbooks
From idea to aftercare.
Propose a scene, agree on it, and debrief afterward. Or let the app design a full step-by-step playbook around your mood, your time, and your limits.
A saved scene
Desires
Say it without saying it.
Write down what you want, privately. When a desire of yours quietly aligns with theirs, both are revealed at once — a spark, surfaced only when it is mutual.
Memory & Insights
Remember what mattered.
Write up your experiences and the app pulls out the themes, the highlights, and the moments worth keeping. A weekly digest shows how far you have come.
Both perspectives
Habits
Small acts, kept.
Gentle recurring practices that reinforce your dynamic — with streaks, and shields for the days life gets in the way.
Calendar sync
On your real calendar.
Optional one-way sync writes your protocols and rituals to a private calendar — neutral titles, and it never reads your existing events.
Safety & Presence
A way out, always.
Pause or freeze the entire dynamic in one tap — every rule, protocol, and task stops, and you are both notified. Safety is not a feature here; it is the foundation.
And the details that keep it alive
SearchNotificationsMilestones & anniversariesProof uploadsPresenceData export
Intelligence
Intelligence, kept private.
Optional AI runs through the whole app — and never sees who you are. Turn it off and everything still works.
Scene playbooksVivid, specific, step-by-step scenes — generated only within your stated limits.
Rule, task & protocol ideasDrafts written for your dynamic, ready to accept or tweak.
Reward catalogRewards, funishments and punishments, costed in marks.
Desire matchingQuietly finds where two private desires meet.
Moment extractionPulls tags, themes and quotable moments from your writing.
Rewrite & refinePolishes your words while keeping your voice.
Digests & summariesWarm recaps of your day and your week.
Habit suggestionsHabits that reinforce the rules you already keep.
Five voices, one of yours
Strict, cold, nurturing, dominant, or teasing — every generated line speaks in the tone you choose.
Private by design
Consent-aware (never crosses a hard limit) · never sends your name or email · fully optional · English & German.
Privacy & sovereignty
Yours, and only yours.
No social graph, no discovery, no profile to find. Encrypted, hosted in Germany, and pausable in a single tap. Obidience is a tool — never a substitute for the consent you negotiate together.
Encrypted
No social graph or discovery
Hosted in Germany
Pause the whole dynamic instantly
Founding Access
One price. Everything.
9,90 €/ month
Final price · no VAT (small business, §19 UStG)Founding price — locks in while we are new.Every feature, no tiersAll AI capabilitiesBoth partnersCancel anytime
BeginYou will create your account first — no card required yet.Questions, answered
Yes. There is no social graph, no discovery, and no public profile — your space is visible only to the two of you.